
photo from Matchbook Magazine
Let me tell you about my new best friend Joy.
I heard about Joy Venturini Bianchi from the cover story in this month’s edition of Matchbook Magazine. (Sidenote - Matchbook is my absolute favorite online source of witty style and interesting articles. If you’ve never checked it out, I highly recommend) Basically Joy is a 73 year old socialite and philanthropist who founded a home for the mentally disabled in 1963. She dedicated 40 years of here life to those people and even spent years living in the home with them. The house shut down in 2002 because many of the volunteers had moved on, but Joy didn’t give up her vision of helping others. She decided to utilize her resources and love of fashion to keep her dream alive.

photo from Matchbook Magazine
She filled the walls of the house with hundreds and hundred of designer ready to wear and couture pieces donated from either her own closet or her closets of her famous and fabulous friends (Iris Apfel, to name one). The house-turned-boutique is known as The Helpers House of Couture and is by appointment and invitation only. This last year Vogue listed it as one of the 7 best vintage shops in the world.

photo from Matchbook Magazine
This week on my lunch break at work I decided to walk into the small boutique in Ghiradelli Square that Helpers owns and Joy oversees from a distance. To my surprise, Joy was working and we bonded over a certain gold Victor Costa for Bergdorf Goodman party dress. After I shared with her that my goal is to work in fashion, she invited me to come play dress up on Friday at the Couture House.
What I saw was BEYOND inspiring. Joy’s presence is fabulous. She’s one of those people who when you’re around, you just know they’re important. For instance - she was telling me how she attends galas and openings 5 nights a week and how I should have seen her in the Balenciaga gown she wore to the Opera the night before. But Joy’s love for the people she cares about and her charity shine through more than anything. I was so inspired by her passions and how she is truly using fashion to help others.
We also had a fantastic conversation today about how fashion has evolved and how today it’s too sexed up and not focused enough on actually making a woman feel beautiful. We both agreed that genuinely GOOD style transcends time and trends, which is why good vintage can we worn anywhere to any occasion. She kept referring to her dear friend Iris’ opinion, and afterwards her assistant emailed me this article which is QUITE hilarious.
Now - I wish I had snapped more pictures with my iPhone. But between Joy and being surrounded by hundreds of couture gowns from the past 7 decades in PRISTINE condition, I was slightly insanely overwhelmed. However, I’m going to start volunteering with Helpers House of Couture and am selling vintage jewelry at their Annual Autumn Party next week. SO, expect more pictures in the future. For now -
Ralph Lauren. Joy says that this is how every young girl should enter a room - bare backed and not bare chested. So much more dramatic. I LITERALLY could not agree more.

Alexander McQueen. You guys, these pictures DO NOT do these pieces justice. If you had put your hands on this McQueen and seen the craftsmanship of this garment….you would have died. Which I honestly did about 49 times this morning. Rough day.

Alexander McQueen. This was during his avian stage. Each of these feathers was hand painted on the silk.

Just me chilling in a mink coat from Bergdorfs. Totally normal.

The dress below is Lanvin that Joy’s mother wore in the 1960s.

Insanely pretty dress below from Prada.

Silk top from the 1940s with a Bill Blass skirt. I’ve NEVER felt so good in a skirt in my entire life. The cut was amazing, and it’s truly a reminder that when clothes are well cut, they make ALL the difference.

Such an amazing, inspiring woman. I can’t wait to learn more from her. Oh and in case you’re wondering. I bought a Prada dress, along with a coat from an Austrian designer that literally looks like it walked out of The Sound of Music, and the silk blouse top in the above photo :)









































